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A weekly discussion of a sex position, outlining the pros and cons of playing in this position.

Seven places to make love

Sexy Couple by Dynamite ImageryCouples usually retreat to the bedroom to make love, but this is a simple way of falling into a habit.

Why not add some spice to your sex life and make love in a different place?

1. The bath – Although this might seem like an uncomfortable place to make love, especially if you have a small bath, this is some of the intrigue behind making love here. Making love in the bathroom is the ideal place to have a giggle and a laugh, because simply trying to get into a position where your man can be inside you is part of the fun.

2. The kitchen counter – Making love on the kitchen counter adds a bit of sleaze to your lovemaking. Usually making love in the kitchen is not associated with lengthy oral sex or intimate touching, but rather quick, dirty and passionate sex.

3. On a couch – Making love in your lounge adds some excitement to your routine, simply because it is not normally a place that you would make love. The worry about making a mess is exciting, and remembering the last naughty thing the pair of you did on that couch when your parents or friends visit gives you and your lover a secret to share and smile knowingly at each other about.

4. In the car – I’ll admit that this is still on my to-do list, but I imagine that making love in the car adds a teen sense of adventure to your lovemaking. You know, sort of like a stolen moment or a spontaneous decision.

5. On the stairs – This is another one of those times when you can make a memory to giggle about, and if you’re in the right position, you might have a great orgasm with the risky feeling you get that you might be caught. Even if it’s your private stairs at home.

6. Against the wall – Making love against the wall is quite a feat for a couple, but what’s nice about it is that both partners have to put some effort into the lovemaking. The woman needs to use her hips and legs to keep the rhythm created by her man. If her man is really strong, he can lift her up and down on his shaft, which also makes the woman a little more excited, if for no other reason than her man is passionate enough to put in so much effort.

7. In an unfamiliar bed – Making love in a bed you’ve never been in before, and one in which countless couples have made love, also adds some edge to your lovemaking.

What is important to remember about making love in different places is that it really depends on your mood whether you enjoy it or not. If you’re not feeling particularly voyeuristic, making love on the stairs might not do it for you.

These different options are also great for role-playing adventures.

Image by Dynamite Imagery


Position of the Month – the Spoon

The Spoon PositionThe Spoon is a very simple position, but it is not for everyone.

It involves both partners lying on their sides with the woman’s body cradled in her man’s. This allows the man to penetrate her from behind.

The position is ideal for deep penetration, but it works best slowly and rhythmically.

The partners can wrap their legs around each other to enhance the intimacy. While the man is free to play with his woman’s body, stroking her thighs, torso and breasts, he might want to cradle her head with one of his arms to make it more comfortable.

Another option is for him to wrap his arms around her underneath her shoulders – this is a comforting position.

This position is perfect for women who enjoy stimulating themselves through tight labia.

It is also popular because it is quite comfortable, and not strenuous at all. However, some couples may get bored with the mild stimulation.

The position is also popular for those practicing anal sex, if you’re into that sort of thing…

Last month’s position: Doggie-Style

Position of the Month – Basic Doggie Style

By Seedfeeder

I have to admit that this position is one of my favorites!

It’s all about the woman and the man giving in to their primal animal-like instincts. Both partners are on their knees, with the woman on all-fours and the man usually gripping her hips from behind.

The position is great for men because they get ultimate penetration while they also have an unobstructed view as the penetrator. They also have greater control over the thrusting, and can be more vigorous. The man also has the use of his hands, which can wander all over your body, tweaking your nipples, massaging your back or stimulating your clitoris while still getting the thrusting right.

For the woman, it is one of the best positions to hit the g-spot, especially if the man puts his legs on either side of yours, pushes his weight forward and rides down at you with his penis in a downward position.

What I like most about this position is that the man can also grab a hold of one of your shoulders as he thrusts, or tug at your hair to bring out the animal in you, or easily manoeuvre you into a standing or kneeling position with ease.

Grr! Go get him! 🙂

Tip – stick it in the air

Photo by Charisma from

It sounds vulgar I know, but this appeals to your lover’s primal, animal-like instincts of just taking you when you’re available.

Lie on your stomach and tilt your bottom in the air. This is even more effective if you’re playing with yourself already. It’s a view that your lover cannot resist (unless they’re really ill), and you should be prepared to welcome him as he climbs in between your legs and gets ready to pound you.

I can almost guarantee that he’ll already be hard for you. Why not surprise your lover this way as he’s preparing for work? Morning quickies are, after all, a great start to the day! 🙂

Position of the Month: Missionary

It is no coincidence that I choose missionary position as the first position to deal with in this monthly series – it is one of the most neglected positions in mainstream media, as for some reason being risque and using more acrobatic positions are the flavour of the era.

Missionary position is, as we all know, easy to accomplish. It is also an all-round pleasure bringer: your lover can reach in as deep as he likes, and if he bothers with your orgasm, the movement of his pelvis can combine with his thrusting movements in a way that is very pleasing for the woman’s clitoris.

The trick for the woman is sometimes deep strokes inside and shallow strokes of the pelvis – this sounds complicated, but with practice is quite simple. The strokes should also be perfectly timed, because we all know our ladies are a little picky when it comes to clitoral stimulation. Keeping a rhythm is the trick here, boys and girls. Remember, it’s not the size of the waves but the motion of the ocean!