Tag Archives: PersonalExperience

Personal Experience – Planning Ahead

I love to do this! Especially if you’re spending a day at work.

All you have to do is drop a few hints in the morning, and then phone your lover intermittently during the day, mentioning that you’d like to make love him when you get home.

The expectation will build for both yourself and your lover, and making love at the end of the day will be amazing!

The last time I did this was about a month ago. It started with a simple mention, and then hints during our phone calls.

When he arrived home in the afternoon, neither of us could wait, and we made our way to the bedroom without even shutting the door behind us, tearing off each other’s clothing on the way there. It’s amazing what a little bit of expectation can do! 🙂

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Personal Experience – an injection of motivation

Yesterday I’d been moping around uninspired and unmotivated until my lover pushed me into the bedroom, peeled off my clothing and gave me a good and thorough rogering.

He explored my body with one hand while holding my hips in position with the other as he pushed into me from behind. Of course, we all know this is my favorite position 😉  and he alternated with penetrating me with his rock-hard member and stroking my clitoral area with his hand and forearm.

He practically had me moaning for more as he put his legs either side of mine and started thrusting right into the heart of me.

My orgasm was long and made me giggle.

Personal Experience – The Kitchen

When my lover and I first met, one of my fantasies featured me waiting in his kitchen, as he sneaks up from behind and suddenly takes me, sending his fingers exploring up my shirt and down my pants, culminating in a steamy session against the counter.

I was pleasantly surprised to have this fantasy fulfilled not too long ago.

Though not surprised the way I’d imagined I would be, there was still surprise in my reaction as he approached me in the kitchen and promptly removed my trousers, only to turn me around, lean me against the counter and take me from behind.

I gripped the sides of the counter as I felt him fill me up, and I allowed the waves of my fantasy to improve the experience. But despite the fantasy, turning around to face him with my bum on the counter – surround him with my legs and thighs and look into his face as he enjoyed himself just as much – was strangely more satisfying than the fantasy itself.

Your fantasy? And have you enacted it?

Personal Experience – Toys

Before I’d been with my current lover, I had never used any toys – I was satisfied with my experiences of satisfying myself, as I simply had no  problem reaching satisfaction.

He bought me a purple dildo – because I love purple – but it unfortunately had the exact same purple colouring as a certain dinosaur we all know. Thus, it was called Barney.

I’d only tried to use Barney once, but the cold feeling isn’t really to my taste and I certainly prefer clitoral stimulation. Perhaps I should try one with a dolphin…

Anyhow, my lover has a penchant for these toys – we purchased a rather large dildo from the store which, though sadly lacking a dolphin or the ability to vibrate, it came complete with veins and testicles. This is my lover’s toy of choice. He alternates between it – dubbed Bob for some reason – and his own cock, but he’s explained that using the dildo gives him a break, prolonging his own moment of release.

Plus, he gets a view he wouldn’t ordinarily get.

Would you give this a go?